If you are looking for real relationships with others in Christ and just don't know where to begin, “Consuming Zeal for the Father’s House” is a good place to start.
You can find all 6+ hours on Youtube:
http://www.youtube.com/user/allatHisfeet
It's about church as you've probably never known it, but have always known it should be.
Just make sure that, before beginning your journey upstream against the traditions of men, you know what you're getting yourself into. :-)